<<I had that for 15 years with STBXH. He was a good H for alll those years... no red flags, until 3 years ago.>>
I hear you loud and clear....like I said on my thread, there are no guarantees....none. Enjoy each other's company....have fun. After going through what we have here, it is normal I think to be a little hesitant.
In spite of the fact that you are downplaying your X's remarks, I have to admit that I do not know your whole history but it is indeed a very interesting statement to make to anybody.
