Hey Sandy, thanks for the input. Honestly, we touched on the subject again and she downgraded it to maybe yes maybe no (she would give it another shot). Is she over him 100? Am I over XW 100%? Are any of us over our exes 100? Probably not....I can only speak for myself and say that XW and her family are not healthy for me....pure and simple. Although if D9 would act as Dennis does regarding the parents potentially getting back together, it would play with my mind a little. NGF sees her boy struggling in school and in general and he asks on a semi regular basis if they (NGF and her X) have a shot to get back together. So there you have it. I am doing my thing. Living my life. Enjoying our time together. NGF does surprise me with long range projections every so often........so....there are no guarantees in life.....K is right I have become cynical.