You're exactly right, and that's why I'm suffering through being here, under the same roof as this woman. I can't leave until I have enough money to file, because I don't want it to look like I just split.
I can't file until I get the money, because this creature has spent all our money chasing dudes down at the casino over the course of the last 18 months. We have no money at all, literally. She wasted our entire savings and all the equity in our home, and screams about how it's my fault (I was out of work, so apparently I made her take out secret credit cards, and she spent all the money on me, but she won't let me see the statements... yez yez).
This is just so nutty. I'm going absolutely bonkers and I appreciate finding a place where so many others are dealing with similar boatloads of nonsense.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation
