rr, other than being present to greet him and briefly discuss children's status and logistics, I don't spend time with H even when he is at home...I retreat to my office. I do find it interesting that he's been able to stick to his "code" mostly before now...but now some cracks are showing.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.