Getting Ready For Divorce

[Quart9]

Crushed - you posted in my post saying you wish you had the $$ to move out. This does not sound like a good idea man. You need to stick aroud for your kids - esp your daughter. If you take off, what if she repeats the same cycle as her mom and grandmother. I have to believe you don't want that/don't want to add to the posibility of that.

I have also read, and this depends on the state, that WAH hurt their chances of custody and visitation due to the courts seeing their walking away as abandonment - something to consider?!

I am sorry to hear about your sitch BTW. I think you did good by coming here to look for help.