Did you tell Dotty all that stuff you told in the other thread? B/c you didn't say very much in this thread about all the sex and how horny she would be and then treat you like cr@p, so maybe you didn't explain everything. The very reason I suggested that you not have sex was b/c of her treatment toward you and b/c you suspected she was having sex with another man. Did you tell Dotty that?
Don't be afraid of your W's moods! I cannot believe how men quiver at the thought of their W being angry at them. I always knew it was a man's world, but the women controlled it.....and now I know understand why.
I also want to point out that asking her when she's coming to bed is pursuing. Iniating hugs & kisses is pursuing. Making small talk is on the list of "don'ts". You see how she reacts.....she doesn't like it. Stop doing what doesn't work.
When you notice that she responds favorable, that is what you need to continue doing. It may take a few days of pulling back or some other 180 before she starts to come around, but I think you would begin to see her take small steps at responding.
Don't act overly "happy" or it will appear as over-kill. Remember that this woman knows you better than anyone and she can tell when you are just putting on a front. It will turn her off! So, be positve and play with the kids, but don't be over the top with any of it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
