I think I'd rather be dead than this- WAW

[Quart9]

I know you guys are not after some vicarious thrill and y'alls advice is given based on what works/so I avoid others mistakes - I do appreciate that.

Yep, I have read many sitch's on here and the WAS always seems to try and control the situation. That is exactly what my W is doing and I realize I need to take a stand. Unfortunately, I have not read any sitch's where the LBS moves out (like a dumba$$) like I did.

I'm beginning to feel like I just need to face reality and accept that we are headed for divorce - especially before I move back in. All of her actions and what she says point to it, and I need to accept that so I can release my fear of moving back in.