keep moving forward on evaluating best financial decisions.
drop sudden resurgence of "DB'ing" thoughts
plan for the worst: court case; time drags on; X is rotten enough to move himself and OW into one of the apartments.
plan for the best: good financial outcome--however that comes to be--and see what that develops into.
Work with C to move forward on healing, letting go, etc.
Keep checking my gmail account for notices from Match.com and eharmony!
Thanks again, all. I was/am in a real low spot. Trying to pull myself out. Will do so with all of you and my RL friends.
(((Aver))) Have caught up. Thanks for your message of support re: my email insecurities. I think I need to do that for a while since I have such little C with H. The last thing I want to do is send mixed messages.
I think your plan above is great. I can relate about feeling low - had a downer meeting w L yesterday, but I'll post about that on my thread. You did great on replacing the bad C, good job on getting her replaced so quickly. Good Cs can really help.
Sounds like you are working through this, I agree w Cutter, you do a great job of expressing your feelings. This is a good place to do it! You're getting clearer & clearer on what you want/need, keep it up. I am thinking of you & will check back soon. ((((Aver))))
