I'm due to give my W a support check, and I think it's ironic that I'm supposed to give it to her right before she leaves the kids with me for TWO WEEKS while she flies around the world to be with OM. When she asks for the check, perhaps I should say "I'm rethinking the whole support thing. If you have enough money to take off of work for two weeks and fly around the world to see your boyfriend, I'm not sure you need any more money from me." Note that it's not court mandated or anything, just an amount we've agreed to informally.
I guarantee she'll be stressed and fuming about that for quite a while!
