BA65, Of course I do not put you in the same category...FAR from it! WAW or WAH are in many ways off in their own worlds while we've been doing a lot of soul searching to not only save our marriages but become better people in the process. And one good thing from this, at least for me, is I have met so many fantastic people lately - men and women alike - who have gone through or going through D currently...and their is a depth of insight that we all share. That's one good thing that's come out of this process for me, I've met many wonderful people that I may not have met otherwise. And also learning that one going through D is not a stigma...I actually find some people 'richer' in character for it. We're all in this together, in some ways. Once you deal with these emotions you become freer in a sense...but you just have to feel them, let yourself go there to those weird/dark places - and then bounce back out stronger, ideally.
