Aver,
Just catching up w you, haven't finished reading yet but your posts about C cause me to reply now!

Another similarity w you - I think I told you about my first C, she was almost as bad as yours!! In the beginning, she kept telling me to get H to "be really really honest" w me about an A. Can you say pursuing?? (This pre-DB, I was so lost!) Then, one day she asks me, Do you HATE him? (Accent on the hate) Seriously! Another session was spent on exploring his early childhood. (how is this helpful to me??) Another session she tells me, "people don't really plan to have affairs" WHAT??? I was too upset and in shock to protect myself from her!

I think you have your answer now, but I just had to chime in.
Buh-bye!!

There are some really bad Cs out there. Buyer beware! I hope the new C is all you hope (& need). Back to catching up!