Look just take a deep hard look at yourself, what do you like and what don't you like about you, throw in some hard looks from complete strangers, who despite evidence to the contrary, actually only want you to be the best you.
Kill the crap you do not like. Kill it.
Do. No Talk.
and...
no more buts...its placating.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK