Our advice is geared toward a spouse who is in a Mid Life Crisis...or just Life Crisis.

Check out the resources at the top of this board, and figure out if she is in a MLC.

Barring that...

What are you doing differntly to affect the outcome you want?

Are you the same person you were two years ago?

If so...

WHY? did you change? For the better?

You aren't the same guy she fell in love with...he kind of faded away.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet