I don't know if you intentionally ignored my long message, but let's get this clear. YOU will never be rid of her because of your D. You have to start learning to get along with her or else your D will suffer in the end.
How can you get along with someone that doesnt want to get along?
Due to my actions/reactions as well as likely input to her from other people...she's not really speaking to me and is nothing but hostile towards me...and in turn all that does is make me angry towards her.
If she would snap out of this crap and get over stuff...things would be fine...but she isnt willing. Like I said she just keeps adding up anything and everything I do...no matter how small or long ago. If I held everything she ever did to me against her I'd have probably left her a long time ago...but I didnt.
And no I dont want my daughter going through this. I pointed out to her that D3 is being punished when she punsishes me with the hostility and silent treatment...and she thinks D3 will be fine and she's being a positive role model for her.
I would say in my current state I'm not a very good role model for D3...mainly because I'm still trying to regain my balance. Before any of this happened I was a pretty good one...taking care of her and the house while still providing for her and my ex.
Like I said to my ex in that email, I was willing to compromise many times and still am...but every time we made a deal, she ended up changing the terms to suit her more, which in turn provoked me, which in turn caused her to end the deal, then the whole thing repeated. Now there is no deal...and nothing I can say will get her to drop her act.
