I am living under the same roof as my wife, and it is so tense I can't stand it. I wish I had the resources right now to rent a tiny room someplace so that I could have some semblance of peace. I plan to do exactly that in a few weeks.
There is something to be said, I think, in giving up and starting over when you've done everything humanly possible. I wonder: have I done everything possible? That's the great question. Maybe moving out and filing will shake my wife up enough to force her to question her behavior, but I doubt it.
Peace, man.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation