I hope you ladies don't put us guys on the boards in that same category as the WAH's.
hhh I think you are right on the money. I had a fantastic session with IC yesterday and the main thing that came out of it was that I have to really be able to let myself experience and process the anxiety and general "bad things" that come out the whole grieve, accept, move on scenario so that I can grow as a person.
I think I tended to not want to deal with emotions that made me uncomfortable, and the seductive part of hiding things you don't want to deal with is VERY strong.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010