Came up w/ a plan to possibly stage an intervention - I will not move forward unless there is undeniable proff- OM1's GF is going to help by encouraging OM1 to come clean w/ what he knows.
OM2 is a known partier and cokehead, W is all over him these days- he's divorced and a bit of a womanizer from what I can tell.
W is missing work, sleeping the day away, and generally losing it from what I can gather- keep in mind though that we really do not speak too much.
The goal is not to save the M but to get her help if she'll take the opportunity. I don't think she'll jump at the chance unless there is undeniable proof of her using- hopefully OM1 will be a better man than he's been and help.
Tonight I GAL by going to dinner w/ friends then a blockbuster night.
