She was clearly torn about it, she called me crying from the airport, and was acting like she wanted to stay with me and the kids. Her trip had been planned for a couple months though, and off she went. I promised myself that if she ever went again, I would end our marriage and move on. So here I am. .
Good luck on tonight Future~
We are always told to follow through with consequences we have sworn to do. As long as you believe she understood what you meant, it sounds like you need to be ready.
At the same time, consider this: - Maybe she was crying because she wants to break it off in person, but thinks you're going to D her, so she'll be alone - Maybe she might come back having broken it off, regardless of her intention.
So if she came back and said she cut things off, you would be able to shelve the D papers, but having them ready if she comes back saying she isn't sure who she wants might not hurt. You have some very tough choices to make calmly.
