Well I just got a call from W. She went ahead and got an atty. She thinks I will put up a fight with her. I can't afford one. She can't either. We don't have anything to fight over. Just how we are goign to pay off our huge debt. Of course now the atty. filled her head with all she can get off of me. She brought up full custody. She won't do it but she was expecting me get angry. I didn't. I tried to talk as rationally as I could with her. She will not listen to reason. I knew that though. It feels like I'm out of time. I guess I am.
She doesn't have a plan yet. I know she has yet to think any of this out long term. I started to layout what is going to happen with our money, how I would have to file for bankruptcy and sell my house. According to her atty. it is part hers too. I owned it before I met her, so I don't how much of it she would be entitled to. Well when I laid it out in plain English, she saw it was going to be huge problem. She actually stumbled for a minute. She asked if I was trying guilt her back. I said no way, and if you think that I will leave right now. I think for a second reality started to sink in.
She told me again she is done. Doesn't think I will ever want to get married again. Most certainly not to me. We did have a few laughs. I told I would let her go. She can do what she wants. She has no idea what her next step is. I guess I just sit back and wait.
