Oh c'mon. I'm sure a bright guy like you could think of quite a few things.
We're told we can't control our spouse's adultery. And it's true -- we can't. But we damned sure don't have to sit idly by and make it EASY on them, either!
I could text her and tell her I thought I saw her house burning down on the news. Then text again a while later and say "False alarm! Sorry, it sure did look like your house!"
Funny, when she was going on her first trip to see OM, just a few weeks after she moved out, her mom told me she and her niece (W's cousin) had a plan to also go and just "show up" on my W and OM. I told her not to go to the trouble. A friend of mine told me to have W served with D papers while she was with OM the first time.
