Just looking for some input if anyone happens on this- Talked to Dotty on the phone Mon. night, and she suggested some things that seem to go against what others have told me here and what I have read. Dotty thinks my W wants more affection from me and that I should go give her a hug and kiss when I get home from work,ask her out and things like that. I used to do things like that, but haven't in quite a while. I think maybe that would have worked six month ago, but don't want to take a giant step back at this point in time. I have been acting "as if", loving but distant, no R talk and it seems to be working somewhat. Sometimes hard to get a handle on just how well, though. It's still a lot of ups and downs, highs and lows. Should I try what Dotty said, or keep with what I've been doing? All thoughts and suggestions welcome!
