I had another thought today....this is just a thought! I could ask my atty, but she would bill me around $200 just for her answer
Can you do a 'post' nuptial agreement???
As I'm going through the D process W is being extremely considerate with regard to division of assets, child support, etc. IF a reconciliation was attempted (and failed) would she be so considerate the 2nd time around?? Maybe not. So, could these items be spelled out and agreed to in the event a D did happen?
How ironic? Because I've often wondered the same thing. But I think that I know my answer already.
When she was in the fog of the A; she was willing to give me anything. Since the baby has been born and she had to work out a child support/custody agreement with XOM; she lawyered for that and is much smarter and cognizant of what she can get.
Sometimes I wish that I had been able to divorce her while she was in the fog. There's always that chance to get back together after a divorce....
