I was a little bit worried that the posting might have been too much for you Bradley.
The good news is IF you are narcassistic it is not that bad, otherwise you wouldn't still be here.
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I am really thinking about everything you all have said. I feel like you all have righted me on my course a bit...
Good. Think. Think hard.
If I have to convince you to stay married, I won't...similar if I have to convince you to be a dad I won't either. Not after this, you should be aware of the consequences however.
As you can tell, many of us do not even see this as a choice. It's a bit alien to us.
There is one thing that bothers me a bit, and it is a revisionist history.
She might have taken your boys with her...but she went with your blessing. And now your saying that she just took them...and that isn't accurate based upon your earlier posts.
You should think about the advice given, and the type of person, father, husband, man you want to see in the mirror. What you look like to us? Fukc us. I see my face in the mirror and you should see yours. I do not live to appease any of you (no offense) and neither should you.
My sense of self and honor and respect, I set the bar for that, as should you. I know what I want to be when I grow up I know what I want passed along to my children and their children, AND I know who I want attending my funeral.
Live up to your own expectations...
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Stop knowing what she is thinking. You don't, even if you were a brain surgeon.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
