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AMY, I am sorry to hear that, I had a feeling that Jeff would be stubborn until it was too late..... You bring up a very good point about DBing too long. People here really misunderstand me and my beliefs. I am all for standing and DBing, but there does come a point and time where enough is enough. Unfortunately some people here will never recognize that time and in not recognizing it, they end up feeling worse about themselves and doing more harm than good to their self-esteem.

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Unfortunately some people here will never recognize that time and in not recognizing it, they end up feeling worse about themselves and doing more harm than good to their self-esteem.


Absolutely.....

I think we get so caught up in saving the Marriage that we lose ourselves in the process.
It is so hard to find a balance in the midst of the crisis,and we tend to think that IF they would only come back then our lives would be complete....
Unfortunately this is NOT the case!!


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I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
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Taking them back at any cost, only costs you, you.

lol

our lives would be complete.

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You're the best Oz.

yeah complete crap.

You got to live for yourself. If you want...let them live it with you.



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Jack, for once, we agree!! LOL

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Braveheart,

We actually agree alot.

I'm just not a big fan of absolutes. smile



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So how do I find you without getting one of us banned?


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If you become a fan of divorce busting on FB and look at the fan list, you should see some names you recognize.


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If you tell us when you have done this we may be able to find you. Also you can join the group "divorce busters". The other is a fan of "divorce busting"


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So I signed up - I'm Phil Bush on the DB FB list.


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