AMY, I am sorry to hear that, I had a feeling that Jeff would be stubborn until it was too late..... You bring up a very good point about DBing too long. People here really misunderstand me and my beliefs. I am all for standing and DBing, but there does come a point and time where enough is enough. Unfortunately some people here will never recognize that time and in not recognizing it, they end up feeling worse about themselves and doing more harm than good to their self-esteem.
Unfortunately some people here will never recognize that time and in not recognizing it, they end up feeling worse about themselves and doing more harm than good to their self-esteem.
Absolutely.....
I think we get so caught up in saving the Marriage that we lose ourselves in the process. It is so hard to find a balance in the midst of the crisis,and we tend to think that IF they would only come back then our lives would be complete.... Unfortunately this is NOT the case!!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
If you tell us when you have done this we may be able to find you. Also you can join the group "divorce busters". The other is a fan of "divorce busting"