Allen A, I was doing good at not letting him engage me the last couple of days. However, when my uncle mentioned the kids and him as a dad I did feel bad for him. I see now how wrong it was. My first H was never around for our son when we D. And my current H, I know he will always be there for them. He has always been a great dad, so my first reaction was to defend him.
He did try to bring up other stuff besides the kids and what my uncle said. I felt I did go with those, I wouldn't engage and walked away, and he didn't follow.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
