I had another thought today....this is just a thought! I could ask my atty, but she would bill me around $200 just for her answer smile

Can you do a 'post' nuptial agreement???

As I'm going through the D process W is being extremely considerate with regard to division of assets, child support, etc. IF a reconciliation was attempted (and failed) would she be so considerate the 2nd time around?? Maybe not. So, could these items be spelled out and agreed to in the event a D did happen?