I know my self respect should be my priority but I am also very interested in reconciling with my W. Will my moving back and standing strong about my right to be there really gain any of her respect? Am I wrong for feeling certain she will file for D once I move back? Will I loose any chance to reconcile with her if I do move back? In your opinion sandi2, do I even have a chance at reconciliation whether I move back there or not?
Q9,
It seems you are determined to ask this question of everyone, until someone finally tells you what you want to hear.
So here, let me save you some time:
"DON'T MOVE BACK INTO YOUR OWN HOME, WHERE YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO STAY. IT WILL ONLY DRIVE YOUR WIFE FURTHER AWAY, AND TOWARDS DIVORCE. IT WILL MAKE HER ANGRY WITH YOU, AND YOU KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE IT WHEN SHE'S ANGRY, SO BEST NOT TO MESS WITH ALL OF THAT."
