Doing hard time on the MLC chain gang.

[Cie la vie]

Kemper just left and he is going to think I am a big ole liar b/c I told him I was not going to post on my thread until I saw more from my W. Kemper and I get together about once or twice a week and kill some beers at my place or local bar, yes it is nice having a fellow DBer live around the corner.

Tell Kemper hello for me, he had some very cogent insightful advice on my sitch early on in my arrival at seperated. Looking forward to his return to the boards if it's in the cards.

Any positive developments how ever samll are better than the status quo and you are wise to keep your expectations in check. No need to to take another shot to the chin when it can be avoided.

I think it is good (relatively speaking) that you are quite certain your wife is in a MLC. At least this gives you a clearer idea of what she is going through and how to approach it. I can't definitively make that call with respect to my W although she exhibits many of the MLC signs. I screwed the pooch in so many ways that she also has a strong case at being a standard WAW.

I'll do my best to send you positive vibes that your sitch continues to show additional encouraging signs.

Ditto on the support front from you and all the others. I'll be in touch.