Thanks LR- I do realize that what you guys are going thru is probably the hardest part of all...it is probably easier to D!

Just got off the phone with db coach. She is on board with calling the pastor of the church anonymously and maybe not mention any names but ask that it be introduced into a sermon! My luck, that would be the week she didn't go to church! Still thinking on that. She does think it would be ok for me to bring it up to H in this way "I have heard from one of your co-workers that your "friend" has been telling people about you and the gift you gave her. Maybe you are aware and ok with that, I just want you to know that I was not the one to bring it out in the open" something like that!

Well, I am at work so will post more later on tonight!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing