Thank you. I have been so worried that I didn't talk or focus on my R, that my H would forget and assume that because we are not talking about it, that we are "accepting" our fate and it would end in D.

This is not what I want. I want to have an honest, fulfilling, and loving marriage with my H. I feel as though we both put other things before our R and stopped doing the things that made both of us happy as individuals.

I wish my H could see or realize that, but I know, we cannot control what they do. Good progress continues.... I have not even dialed his number.

I can do this. I just need to keep telling myself that. smile


OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."