I understand your disappointment in the financial situation your W has put you and herself in.
My W's decisions on money have left me speechless. Her mail still comes to our home and I open some of it. Her monthly nut is in the neighborhood of 5K+ and she is unemployed. I saw her last two monthly cell statements $250.00 and $300.00 this piggybacks on $500.00 and $600.00 statements. She has become a teenager with no common sense. Her irresponsible wreckless spending is simply beyond words. Her thinking has to be that her brother who has made millions will always be there to bail her out if push comes to shove.
Fortunately I cancelled all shared accounts after I intercepted the first over the top cell bill. She is on a collision course for a financial meltdown and I will sit back and watch with jaw agape.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)