Same vote here mb28. And your husband is NOT a good father when he CHEATS.. If you think for a second his behaviour is NOT affecting them you are mistaken... they feed off negative energy easily... He's diong damage to his entire home with his behaviour... any bashing he gets after exposure is HIS FAULT.
Do NOT coddle him or enable him... which is exactly what apologizing for your uncle does.. this is exaclty why we reccomended NOT talking to your H.... you are easily manipulated into enabling him right now... do NOT contact him... he is giong to try to manipulate you into feeling SORRY FOR HIM...
The response is as always
"This woman is HURTING our ENTIRE FAMILY and YOU are ALLOWING IT... DO NOT CONTACT US UNTIL SHE IS GONE"