Thanks Aver and Flowmom. Aver... you are right. There really isn't a need to say much more than that. I think there are some people we will need to say more with, but otherwise not. Flowmom, you have a good point as well about this forcing H to face consequences. It never ceases to amaze me as I have read other people's sitches how WAS fogbrain seems to prevent them from seeing that at the time. Now that the fog has lifted, my H is so shaken by his own choices and actions and can't even understand what he was thinking, or how he had somehow convinced himself at the time that there wouldn't be negative consequences.... I know some of this is his own journey, but yeah, it sucks that I have to pay a price too. There will be an impact on my own career and that is the really unfair part. But, I will do my best to walk through this part of the journey with my head held high.
