Originally Posted By: avermont
Keep checking my gmail account for notices from Match.com and eharmony!
I haven't used online dating sites, but I don't get the impression that it's easy to find great middle-aged guys on them.

To branch out socially (not necessarily date) I'm planning to join an outing/hiking club. My past experience is that there are a lot of single men in them, and it's a way with connecting with people in a non-pressuring way. I always enjoy a hike even if the company is not perfect. I feel like I can be myself in that setting, not putting on a show. It doesn't put me on the spot with respect to my dating/R intentions...it just allows me to get to know people who share a love that I have. Going on a hike or snowshoe with strangers is my next GAL plan. I'm sure there's something like that where you live too.


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