Thanks Lost. FTR I have decided not to confront W about OM. As you so put it I need to bite my T and get out of the way. This as you can imagine is tough for a dominating controling freak like myself. But therein lies the changes that are needed. I cannot control this, I cannot predict the future. I am only along for the ride, which should be on the Eric express to self improvement. As for the pain...that is my cross to bear and work thru.

BTW - is thier anybody on these post that are in the lovely state of CT?

"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans