having some second thoughts about job...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Well you have enough lumber here to be a cabinet maker.

Elwood,

DBing requires change.

Change is scary.

You ARE NOT DBing if YOU do not change.

There is no program that is successful relying on someone else to change for something YOU want.

I support you here, as do many others, but I am not going to say your wife is wrong knee jerk reaction when guess what? Sometimes I do not think she is.

You are losing sight of something important here.

She said she wants to work on it. Is she lying? You seem to think so.

You have to met her halfway man. If this is all on conditions that only you set, if this is all 'my way or the highway".

You sacrificed 9 years...and no fukc that, that's not even close to true. 9 years later and YOU are a surgeon cardiac or not...a SURGEON. And she sacrificed 9 years just as well.

Bradley, yes please MAN up.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop feeling OWED, you aren't.

Meet her halfway. It does seem like (SEEMS LIKE) alot of things were very much Bradley and not so much her.

Fukc I'd run from that. Fukc I did.

You want to be married? You want a fullfilling relationship? You change.

she is prepping them for the future... she is prepping them to never have me fully in their life.

You don't know this. You don't.
Expectations GOOD and BAD kill us on this trip.

Stop figuring out WHAT she is thinking, when you aren't even sure what you are.

Stop saying, "Yes, but" you sound spoiled.