I think Ann Landers always suggested, in response to a waay too personal question: "that's a very personal question." Nuff said, smile, move on.
Love that! It's too bad that you are going to have to deal with the consequences of your H's actions. But OTOH, it will reinforce to your H that his actions have consequences beyond the damage to your M.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.