One day at a time....

[avermont]

I think Ann Landers always suggested, in response to a waay too personal question: "that's a very personal question." Nuff said, smile, move on.

Or, "thank you for your concern. This is very personal."

If actions speak louder than words, as we say here, then the askers will be seeing you with H, not OW with H, and there's the proof in the pudding. Whatever that saying means!

Sorry you have to deal with this next step. I'm sure there will be some other scandal soon enough for the gossipers to gossip about.