Sounds like things are going well, Mindfull!

I might have to ask for the witch's brew recipe.

I'm with Pearl--clean out the clutter. New clothes, new body, new you. Old, bigger clothes just take up physical and mental space.

I did tanning, too, for the first time at the beginning of this sitch. I always have a "biking" tan, which looks ridiculous! I figured at my age, I didn't have to worry too much about skin cancer from a dozen tan sessions. And I wanted, for ME, not to have stupid tan lines. I'm winter pale now, of course, but it is an EVEN pale!

I look forward to hearing about your spring shopping adventures.

Keep it up.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process