the word is out

[Lost Rabbit]

CW (())

However much you knew this was on the cards its still not nice when its out in the open!

You say you want your old H back, harsh as this is going to sound but its not going to happen, what ever you get back if you do wont be your old H, it will be a re-incarnation of your old H, probably with a bit of attitude and resentment, we all dream of them coming back saying they were wrong and they made a mistake and they love us but in reality its not like that at all! Read Rocked Worlds thread she busted an A and her H came home but its not a bed of roses, my H came home no A but there is very little acknowledgement of him making a mistake, and to add to that he doesnt want to be in our house, after the flat he stayed in was much cosier and countryfied, but he does want to be with me, that still makes me feel uncomfortable that he doesnt want to be in our home! Just dont want you to think its going to be all sorted once he does come back, thats when the really hard work starts.

As for OW I would assume from her required dress attire it would not be approved on jot her going with a married man, but you have to remember that she is probably going on the drivel he has fed her too! My W doesnt understand me, I want to be free etc etc.. You could ring her elders and ask them to support you in trying to make your marriage work and ask them to ask her to back off! Tackle it with dignity and grace.. Going to stick my nose into the alt if you need a chat for a bit!