DbD,
I think it is clear to everyone here that you hubby has gone totally nutty.
The rush to D you. He thinks it will bring him happiness. Wow, how misguided he is.

I feel for your children. Are they the age where they can go to court and state that no longer want contact with their father? I sometimes wish I had done that as a child. Less craziness to deal with.

I think by the times kids get to be 14 or 15 if they do not want to visit the other parent it's their choice completely - I do not know this legally at all. It's just seems to be what I have seem in life, of course a lawyer would know better.

Don't worry- he just keeps digging his own hole. Let him do it and know that his D is a gift in a way. The less you have to deal with his nuttiness the better.

In a way- I hope it makes getting over him easier.

Maybe he has to hide behind anger to try and justify his actions. Maybe if he really owns up to his bad behavior it would be awful for him. So much easier to blame you than to own up to his misbehaving.....

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)