I thought of another response if WH brings up divorce--instead of the canned, cheesy response of "my life is great,I'm doing blah blah"

I can say " Well ok if that's what you want but I don't see why we are going through the hassle of all this when YOU KNOW we will be getting back together!"

It's a joke but I imagined how odd and funny it could be if I just kind of laughed off his D talk and was just kind of like "You crazy son of a gun! Ah geez, what are we going to do with you?" Kind of like he was up to his latest "shenanagins" and going through a phase. How satisfying for me would that be?
Always smiling with a "knowing" look, moving stuff out of the house, going to parenting classes, doing the whole thing but never crying in front of him, never being angry, and just shaking my head and giggling?

hahahaha! (just a fantasy but hopefully he won't ever bring up D!!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004