CW, I understand about the flirting and would think if you did it when he hasn't shown any interest then it would come across as persuing!Good call not doing it as of late.

So have you seen other positive changes since you have found something for him to do? (i.e. needing him)

I will check out your thread again!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004