That's excellent that he did contact you. Hopefully that means he's working past his childlish need to ignore you every time something doesn't go his way. But like you're saying, all you can do is show him the best you that you can and foster a relationship for the time left. You are a better and stronger person now and hopefully he'll step up to the challenge to meet you.
It's amazing how selffish our H's are though. I'll too always ask and listen about his day and how he's doing, but rarely does he ask about mine. Sometimes I'll just tell him how it's going to have some communication, but rarely does he actually ask. I've really been thinking about how you help a person overcome their selffishness, but I don't know if there is a good solution for that...maybe just time and maturity?
Yeah, there is definitely a lot coming up for you these next couple of weeks. There's some solace in the fact that the time in limbo land will be up shortly. A little scary though in regards to which way it will go, but it sounds like you have the strength to handle it either way.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10