How do I find myself.......and Live for ME??

[ddstartingover]

Yes....the work never ends, and from the looks of H's house (when I've been there) I think he has a "new" understanding of what I did----not that it matters.

I will put "getting the kids involved" on my goal list and get to work on that as well.

I like the idea of golf because it seems like a "relaxed" sport....but still active. H and I did some golfing before we had kids----nothing serious, but it was fun. I'm either going to try to get D16 (her BF golfs) interested or some friends to join me----to help conquer the embarrassment (because I'm sure I'll suck more than most).