oh. well, I was thinking that you would be okay with giving him different times, if that wasn't something he tried to do ALL the time. so that's why I added the last sentence.
I get that and would be better about it if he didn't blow off his regular times. I think if I give in too much he would never abide by any rules and he would just come and go when it suited him, MGF, or his other kids.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!