having some second thoughts about job...

[Cadet]

Fatherhood is still something I am just learning to do-- but admittedly it is not at the top of my list...

This is something you can change. Do not let your W take this away from you.

You are right it IS important.

No one knows how to be a DAD. You must learn how.

These are things that you can do no matter whether you are married or not. DO IT!