I found out last night that my drunken uncle called my H and bashed him for abandoning me and the kids. My H is a great dad, and I've never complained about him as far as the kids. Of course my H took it out on me, it's my entire fault. I've ruined him by telling everyone all these false things about him. I just responded with "He is a drunk, and no one else has ever said anything about you as a father". I know I shouldn't had responded, however I did feel bad that my uncle did that. After I sent that text, my H apologized for upsetting me. I didn't respond.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10