I finally have some free time in my life! It's been a long time since I did. Less frquent posting is a sure sign of growth. I used to post 10 times a day, and would often only be able to hang on until someone posted back to me. I've been here going on 4 years! Still not divorced, but I can't wait for it to be over. I think this board can sometimes be a double edge sword. It made me have unrealistic expectations to reconcile for a long time. Thank goodness that time indeed is a wonderful thing!