After some back and forth e-mails yesterday I have determined that I am a "FIXER". I will take ownership of this and I need to determine how to work on this. What should I do about this. I know that in my previous(same) M my W would be happy with this situation since she "needed" to be fixed. I obviously stopped providing this to her in at least a $$$ way.
Let me add in to this that her and I are really reconnecting. Last night my D23 was having a sort of meltdown and wants to quit both of her jobs. She did not want to talk to me but spoke to my W who gave her excellent advice. MY W and I discussed these things this morning and it almost felt like old times. My W also admitted she is going through the change and her hot flashes are starting to subside, although she was having one while we spoke.
In any event I certainly am not trying to fix any of the above events but I am trying to understand what MY condition means and what if anything I should do about it.
